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Local Legend Revealed: The Mystery of the Dancing Lady

The Mystery of the Dancing Lady still haunts us.

A lady, who is wearing a beautiful dress, is coming down the stairs.
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In the 1840s, the Graham Springs Hotel was one of the most fashionable summer resorts in Kentucky. It was a place where glamorous guests flaunted their riches whilst mingling, dancing, and laughing with others of a high caliber. However, the Graham Springs Hotel has a dark history… The unsolved mystery of the Dancing Lady. 

Who is the Dancing Lady?

The story of the Dancing Lady originally came from the then-hotel owner Dr. Christopher Columbus Graham. Some have argued that it is highly romanticized, whereas, others are chilled by the ghostly tale. 

He recalled that the lady checked into the Graham Springs Hotel on a hot summer day in 1840. She introduced herself as Virginia Stafford and insisted her father was a powerful Louisville judge who would be checking in later on in the evening. 

During the evening of that night in 1840, the hotel hosted a ball and the lady attended. The other guests were amazed by her beauty and charm. The lady danced with several gentlemen and it seemed that she wanted to dance all night. However, as the evening began to come to an end, her dance partner looked down at her and saw that she had died in his arms. 

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How did the Dancing Lady become a mystery?

Many decades ago, the hotel burned down and it has now been replaced with the Youngs Community Park. This is a nice green public space with a pavilion, children’s play area, and a parking lot. However, it is not your typical park! There are many stories about one hotel guest who never left the hotel grounds…

A woman who never changed out of her ballgown into her nightdress or eased her tired feet from her dancing shoes. She lies in her grave, a short walk from where she died. 

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After her death, the hotel owners investigated and found out that the lady had lied about her identity. She wasn’t the daughter of a Judge Stafford and nobody came to identify her body. Nobody knew who this lady had been or why she had kept her real identity a secret. The hotel owners decided to search her room… All they could find was a dress and an empty trunk. 

Why is the Dancing Lady a ghost story?

The lady was buried on the grounds in an anonymous grave. The words ‘UNKNOWN – Hallowed and Hushed be the place of the dead. Step Softly. Bow Head’ were engraved on her place of rest. 

The legend claims that the lady danced herself to death and if you go to the old grounds now, she can still be seen dancing by her grave at night. A local woman reported that she encountered a figure near the lady’s gravesite. According to the woman, the figure seemed lost and asked her for directions to the Graham Springs Hotel so she could go back to the ball.

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After the woman told the figure that the hotel had burned down many decades ago, she claims that the figure became distressed and began to weep.

What do you think? Do you believe in ghost stories or is there a logical explanation for all of this?


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